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What a Bully Taught Me About Public Speaking Self Help Articles | April 21, 2004
I hated Kyle Sisk*. A ... bully, Kyle ... my grade school years with misery. He would tease me about my weight, ... rattle me with shocking ... delight in making me look fooli


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This type of treatment continued all through grade school. I enjoyed the respite of summertime before we started at our new junior high school but September came and with it, my sense of dread at seeing Kyle again. I was given a reprieve, but an unwelcome one. That first week of school, my father died suddenly of a massive heart attack. I stayed home from school for about a week for the funeral and family visits. My first day back Wholesale Kahale Warring Jersey , the teachers wanted to take it easy on me so they gave me the coveted duty of going to each classroom and placing the absentee list on each teacher?s desk. I felt special to be excused from class and was enjoying my rounds when I came to Mr. Lester?s science class. I entered the room and my heart stopped. There, sitting right next to Mr. Lester?s desk was Evil Incarnate himself, Kyle. There was no avoiding him--he had seen me come in--so I braced myself for whatever abuse he was no doubt preparing, but as I got closer I noticed that he didn?t have his usual smug expression. He was looking down at his desk sheepishly. Very odd. As I lay the paper on the teacher?s desk, Kyle looked up at me with big, soft eyes and in a timid, tentative voice said Wholesale Max Scharping Jersey , ?I?m sorry your old man croaked.?

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I was stunned. Not from the inelegance of the sentiment, but rather from the realization that Kyle?even KYLE?had the capacity to feel and express compassion. ?I?m sorry your old man croaked? wasn't exactly poetic, but to me it was the sweetest expression of kindness I had ever heard. It was in that moment that I realized that everyone, no matter how intimidating, has good in there somewhere.

A Lesson for Speaking

I think we need to remember this when we speak to our audiences. We look out and see grumpy frowns or intimidating scowls but even those listeners have hearts and the potential to connect with us. We might not be able to connect right away--maybe not ever--but just about everyone has that basic human spark of goodness through which we all connect. Besides, you?ve heard the old saying, ?Behind every jerk is a sad story.? We need to remember that the most intimidating Wholesale Lonnie Johnson Jersey , obnoxious audience members you will ever face most likely got to be that way because of pain. Looking back, Kyle?s bullying no doubt stemmed from a miserable home life. His lashing out at me on the schoolyard is not much different than the heckler at a comedy club or a nit-picking
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